The Wise Man Knows

Developing a life of wisdom means that a person is humble enough, curious enough, and brave enough to learn when to speak and when to be silent!

An ancient Roman writer once said, “I have often regretted my speech, never my silence.”

I confess that it has been a hard lesson for me. Once, someone asked me, “Why do you talk so much?” I responded, “Because the sound of my voice comforts me!”

A big smile came on our faces, and he clearly understood my point.

Humans are enamored with our voices, and it shows up in the funniest ways.

For instance, most people hate hearing their voices played back from a recording. “Do I really sound like that?” That’s why every good public speaker must listen to recordings of himself speaking to improve his craft.

To speak or not to speak: that is the question! The truth is that all of us are formed in how we decide to speak or not. We rush to offer our opinions. We instruct or correct others even when they don’t ask our advice. Or, we remain silent when we should speak out.

We need discipline in using our compelling voice, especially with our children.

How do we learn this lesson of when to speak and when to be silent? How do we develop the wisdom to discern?