Wait Patiently

The maturing discipline of delayed gratification means that you have decided that eternal wisdom is more valuable and helpful to your life than indulging the whims of immature desires.

Waiting has never been my strength.

I’m the kind of person who would ask the Lord for patience and then add, “and please give it to me right now!”

Yep, that’s me, alright!

But there is great wisdom in learning to wait.

In fact, one of the greatest gifts you can give your children is to teach them to be patient and to wait for opportunities when they are ready.

It’s called “delayed gratification,” and it is the key to helping your children become responsible, mature adults.

Too often, our overly entitled society becomes furious when its desires aren’t met immediately.

I’m no fan of the constant accusations of “privilege” in our currently chaotic culture, but there is something to be said for the corrosive effects of impatience and indulging our delusions.

Learn to wait. Tame your desires. (Warning: It’s a long lesson today, but worth the work!)

Today’s Lesson: 2 Peter 3:1-18

Beloved, this is now the second letter that I have written to you, and in both of them I have aroused your sincere mind by way of reminder; that you should remember the predictions of the holy prophets and the commandment of the Lord and Savior through your apostles. First of all you must understand this, that scoffers will come in the last days with scoffing, following their own passions and saying, “Where is the promise of his coming? For ever since the fathers fell asleep, all things have continued as they were from the beginning of creation.” They deliberately ignore this fact, that by the word of God heavens existed long ago, and an earth formed out of water and by means of water, through which the world that then existed was deluged with water and perished. But by the same word the heavens and earth that now exist have been stored up for fire, being kept until the day of judgment and destruction of ungodly men.

But do not ignore this one fact, beloved, that with the Lord one day is as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day. The Lord is not slow about his promise as some count slowness, but is forbearing toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance. But the day of the Lord will come like a thief, and then the heavens will pass away with a loud noise, and the elements will be dissolved with fire, and the earth and the works that are upon it will be burned up.

Since all these things are thus to be dissolved, what sort of persons ought you to be in lives of holiness and godliness, waiting for and hastening the coming of the day of God, because of which the heavens will be kindled and dissolved, and the elements will melt with fire! But according to his promise we wait for new heavens and a new earth in which righteousness dwells.

Therefore, beloved, since you wait for these, be zealous to be found by him without spot or blemish, and at peace. And count the forbearance of our Lord as salvation. So also our beloved brother Paul wrote to you according to the wisdom given him, speaking of this as he does in all his letters. There are some things in them hard to understand, which the ignorant and unstable twist to their own destruction, as they do the other scriptures. You therefore, beloved, knowing this beforehand, beware lest you be carried away with the error of lawless men and lose your own stability. But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be the glory both now and to the day of eternity. Amen.

St. Peter writes to churches under his care about the temptation to give up when it seems the Lord is taking His own sweet time in returning.

Know that the first generation of followers of Jesus were convinced He would return before they died, and they lived as if the return of the Lord was just around the corner.

Imagine how this affected the weak faith of some when the Second Coming didn’t happen in their lifetime.

They began to doubt the whole message of Jesus because they were impatient.

What Can We Take From This?

First, the Lord is not slow; He’s forbearing, giving time for repentance.